You’re not broken — just at a point where the strategies that carried you this far have stopped working. Something has shifted: in your relationship, in yourself, in the way you’re moving through the world.
You want someone who gets it without a lengthy orientation. Someone who will think with you, push back when it matters, and stay with you in the real thing rather than pointing you toward the bright side. Especially if you’re navigating neurodiversity, a blended family, a relationship that doesn’t fit a conventional template — or all three at once.