I came to this work because I spent a long time looking for someone I could actually talk to — and that person was hard to find. Eventually, I decided to become them.
I’ve been through things. Depression that didn’t resolve with a pill. Waiting for care that never came. A few connections with counsellors who were genuinely good, that I couldn’t hold onto. A long stretch of time spent looking for an answer that turned out not to exist.
What I found instead was this: you never forget what you’ve been through, and you can learn to carry it differently. The things you once hated about yourself, with time and effort, become the traits you’re most proud of.
That took a while to understand. When I finally did, I went back to school — because I wanted to be for someone else what I couldn’t find for myself.